Looking Ahead!

Story tells of a woman married for 20 years who now is beginning anew as a single woman. Facing the Life altering choice to start over. Deceive by a man that vowed to love her til death they do depart. Called by God to spread the good news yet living the opposite just as he chooses. Thinking that his hidden lufe was not seen even in God's blindspot. Instead a web of lies and deception over the course of a few years that involve betrayal from family that helped him continue this fausade to maintain multiple relationships with other women. Now your choices have sprung seeds that now must be accounted for. Yet  because she loves him and God she continue to forgive him. People always want to say what they would do, but until your steps walk in those same shoes you don't know. One thing that was so profound is how God allowed her to forgive and walk as an example of Proverbs 31 Woman. That's the difference between little girls and a grown woman. When a person chooses to continue to live in ungodly behaviors and habits with no remorse of how their actions affect others they do so willingly. Its easy to parade around the country and city side trying to impress a side chick because they dont require much. Yet a real man will live for God with integrity at all times and know he has to depend on God with every temptation. Men that operate outside of God in these type relationships need to understand they're not hurting their spouse as much as they are hurting themselves. God will strengthen you to endure the very things that you think you cant, give you peace as you go through it and help you to live out your God given purpose as you give him glory. When He is ready he will move you from that situatiin, but how you handle it until he does is our responsibility. People may never understand how and why you do what you do or endured what you did. Nor do they even care becauuse some are just nosey and want something to talk about. Let me just clear it up for you because contrary to what they may say have happened she loved him and she loves God. So just because he did her wrong it doesnt remove her love for him. Yet its sad how family members will help there own mistreat, lie and deceive their spouse/mate, but if the tables were turned it would be different.  Generational curses like infideluty can be broken, but only when thru acknowledgment, prayer and calling it what it is. God doesnt want anyone to live lesser than they should. One thing about someone who is an habitual adulteror that is an issue with them, not their spouse that they must work on.  No amount of love can change a persons bad behaviors and habits. Forgiveness has allowed her to trust to do her part to mend their relationship, but it takes two. When that trust is repeatedly broken you have to love yourself more and love them from a distance.  God created her as a helpmeet and not a doormat to watch her husband continue walking through the same revolving door. As she closes out this year and look to the future she does so the same way she entered this storm as she makes her exit with her trust in God and her hand in God's hand.
#ArealProverbs31Woman!