Let discernment lead!

Let's just say, the look on their face when they think they're talking about you with subliminal messages when you keep ignoring them. Most times they fail to see that they will need you sooner than you need them. Never follow your eyes where discernment don't take you.

Bus Stops!

Setting goals for yourself gives you the peace to walk away from the train wreck seats you've been riding in. Sometimes you cause yourself to be frustrated, devaustated and stagnant by driving your own bus to the same stops.
#Getoffthebus!
#Better2016!

Positively Me!

Amazing how folks want you to support their ideas, events and endeavors, but won't do the same for others. When others dont support God's vision through you, know that He has strengthen you for the journey. You may not finish as they want, but if you stand firm you will finish strong with prayer.
#PositivelyMe! 
#HeartofASingleWife!
#Newbook!

Another Thankful Day!

There are so many people and things that I'm very grateful for. My children, my lil yummy, my parents, my family and real friends those that have impacted my life, those that I've imparted into, those that have challenged me and those that inspire and motivate me to keep pressing forward. Most of all I'm grateful for that which has been given to me freely- His grace, His mercy and His SON!

Dreams!

Don't allow the doubts of others to dampen your dreams. Hold fast to the hope you have in Christ. Sometimes it seems as if the storms will never end, but God has promised you that it will. Trust in what He put in you and not what's placed in front of you.#PositivelyMe!

Seek or Settle!

Many people desire a mate that possess qualities and attributes that have far greater inner value, but too often they seek or settle for those that display what most put value in of external worth. Never taking time to truly get to know a person for who they are, not for what they show you in 72 hours. Why is it so hard to treasure that of nobleness than that of notoriety?

Our Reward!

Our greatest work shall be rewarded in heaven. Be encouraged that what God has given you to fulfill will accomplish it's very goal. Many folks wont appreciate your presence, but they will in your absence. When others don't see your worth or appreciate your value. Take confidence that only what we do for Christ is will last. Don't look for man's validation, but seek God's approval.

False Words

Let us not be moved by false words or vain intentions. It never cease to amaze me the lengths others will go through to make a name for themselves. Communication is so important anything less is just manipulation for their own good.

Let them!

Folks will always whisper about you to someone else, but they won't approach you with the same conversation. Just like they talked about Jesus, let them as you continue to be whom God has made you. While you're the topic of the sister circle, their issues still continue. It's easy to talk about others and not do any thing about what's brewing in your own yard

Faithfulness!

God says "Can you be faithful as a Christian if I tell you not to tell anyone that you are?" That is something to really think about. So many people want to be associated with what they can go around and say that they belong too. What about just living as God has commanded us to and truly "Let the life you lead speak for you". 

Micro managing!

Things would be different if they realized the monster that they create by giving in to the stuff the should stay away from. Most things that you're micro managing should be release to its rightful owner. A battery can never  reach it's full potential until it's put use.

Godly mechanism!

Your love can't ignite the drive in others, but it can be the mechanism to self motivate yourself to be the best you can be for the right person. God loves us for who we are, but it's His love that makes us better that what we are.

Pressing In!

There comes a time when you get so desperate for God's hand that you close yourself off to those distractions that keep you from pressing in to his presence just to draw closer to Him.. The fervent and righteous renderings unto the Lord cause him to respond to us.  Decide that your desire to be obedient to God is more important than anything. He causes you to move from the place of comfort to challenge you to stand boldly on your faith. Praise will get His attention, but worship causes Him to act on your behalf.

Strength and Obedience

When you're not confident in the strength of your own legs and voice. You'll always look for someone else to rescue and speak for you. Until you seek after God's heart for direction and instruction. You will continue to run in circles trying to please others and not God. He doesn't expect us to be perfect, but He does require us to be obedient.

Relationships

A great relationship is rooted in God, formed through trust, planted along with faith and water in love for whom a person really is and not for who they are not. Love covers all, but lies bury you underneath it. At the end of the day the greatest union comes from like minded and equally yoked individuals. Those that truly believe that "He that finds a wife finds a good thing". Don't chase, wait til God sends him to you.

He Still Can!!

When it feels like nothing is good enough or the more you do, the more they take. The more you try, the farther you get. No amount of good things you do genuinely, it's always misunderdtood. Being obedient to the good works He's given you to do, you still feel like you drowning under the flood gates of oppression. There is always someone scrutinizing what you do, bad mouthing your name, your gifts and your character while you're doing it and they don't even have to know you. Just making judgments based on someone else's opinion. Making assumptions based on what they hear and not what they see. Sometimes you're always in a fight that doesn't even seem fair. What often seems like total punishment is God's way of preparing you for something greater. The problem is were human and we don't always see ourselves as God does. Its often so dark that we don't see the light of hope nowhere in sight to endure. Feeling like every battle is slowly winning. Trusting God means not only believing that He can stop the storm, but understanding that journey of the storm is His will. Try not to lose faith in Him because you don't see a change in your circumstances.
#abledeventhruourinabilities!
#Hestillcan!
#ItsnotovertilGodsayso!

Just Worship!

There's nothing greater than your intimate time in worship with the Lord. ALL I can say is God will do just what He said He will do. He's gonna fulfill EVERY promise to you. Don't give up on God because He won't give up on you". When tears streaming down, when the light of day is getting dim, as your strength seems to fail. God's love for us reminds us that there is nobody greater and that He is able!
#Hallelujah!
#Personalworship!
#Thankful!
#Grateful4dapromise!

Success!

Success is not predicated on your ability to give directives, but you ability to lead by example. Don't assume thst your great because of the quantity of folk following you, but by the quality of folk alongside you. You can think that you're hurting others thru isolation and ignoring them, but you dig your own pit that way. In the end, if you don't adhere to God's will you'll spiral to your own downfall. Release your issues to God and really go forward.

Your season is now!

It's your season of grace and favour to reap what you've sown. Such a powerful verse, many want God's grace and blessings, but put no thought into the seeds that they sow. Don't allow seeds of hatred, manipulation, unforgiceness, bitterness, intimidation be the ones that you sow. Apply God's word to your life, love like Christ and walk in His likeness and reap the rewards of blessings.

Seeing Heaven past the whispers!

It never cease to amaze us when immature people try to whisper about you behind your back then want to greet your in genuine salutations. If you thought that your actions would cause us to stoop to your level, stop thinking because it wont. Don't think this sickness is unto death because It's not over. That in which God has placed in us is still thriving, working and ministering while you leaning in whispering.
#Favored!
#Blessed!
#Gifted!
#Anointed!
#Thats100!
#GreatWordtoday!
#idsayByeFeliciabutidbapt2callubynsmecalluoutinprsyerbyname!

I Still Believe!

The greatest test is not finding your strength to overcome the trials and challenges you face. God is watching to see your strength when you recognize that the test is to to endure them. Just because he can heal, doesn't mean that it's his plan for us....Can you still believe, I do!

Fill us!

One of the worse feelings in the world is to know that God has called you to something that is gonna cause you great opposition and persecution. When we give of ourselves to others knowing that they won't give you the same. Yes we know that we're not perfect, but are made Perfected by Christ. Everyone desires one common thing and that is to feel loved, not artificial or surface but real heartfelt love. To know that someone cares snd that d one one has them on their mind. That is who Jesus Christ is to us the one the fills and completes us.

Team players

Sometimes you have to ask yourself, is it really me and not others. No matter how much you try to maintain peaceful ground the road seems rocky.  The more you try to help, it turns out the opposite. When you think that you're making right decisions, it still seems to be the wrong one. It puts your mind on overload with just trying to live and be there for others. Most times it becomes a bout them and you lose your sense of being in it. Stay true to whom God has made you and what he has given you to do for your own peace of mind. Everything doesn't have to be a battle, when you're suppose to be on the same team

Silent Cries!

God can supercede your memories, your dreams and your expectatiins. Just know that He hears your silent cries, every tear and your very hearts desire. Sometimes the first thing is not always the right thing. Just like the most convienient things are not Christ's things for you.

End of day!

At the end of the day, everyone wants the same thing. To feel like you're appreciated for who you are. To know that what you give of yourself is really worth it to those that are receiving. Finally, to be loved unconditionally, just as hard as we love others. To be first to others like they want to be you.

Greatest Decision!

One of the greatest decisions you can make for your future begins with loving yourself first.

His Love

Love embraces, encourages and empowers us in every aspect of our lives. Unconditional and neverending sense of feeling appreciated, but it starts with you. How do you feel about yourself? Do you live yourself first? Everything that God did for us was because of His love for us. For God so loved the world says it all. We are apart of Him. He did it for those of us who are considered a whosoever. We are loved because He first loved us.

You Are!!

What an awesome time of consecration it's been. A time to get focused, direction and instruction from God for all that He is going to do in this year. Make the effort to trust in His word, believe in His promises and cast all your cares at His feet. There is so much in ypu that God is getting ready to use to take you to the next level. Know that you are special, valued, worthy and great because there is soooooo much in you that God wants to get out of you. Continue to rely on His authority and love because You Are:
Anointed
Beautiful
Chosen
Destined
Effectual
Favored
Girded
His
Identified
Justified
Kindred
Loved
Miracle
Notable
Ordained
Perfected
Queen
Restored
Safe
Testimony
Unique
Victorious
Warrior
Xeroxed
Yours
Zealous 
This is your season!!

Thank You Cards!

Sending out THANK YOU cards to all the Haters, Nay sayers, Doubters, Manipulators, Frienemies, Fakers, Tricksters, Confusors, Disrepectors and Shysters that thought their work to destroy, distract and delay me from my purpose and God’s plan for my life would win. Thank You for pushing me down so that God could raise me up. Thank you for your plots so God could use you to get me out. Thank You for making even easier to continue to serve God with gladness. For being the pressure to make me like pure gold, thrusted in the fire by the enemy to come out on top, refined and shining like never before. Thank You for showing your hand so that God’s hand can be seen in my actions, words and most importantly my LIFESTYLE. Thank you for plotting against me that I may dig deeper into CHRIST as I not only held onto to HIM, but assuredly He was holding on to me. Today is a celebration as I remember my Birth in HIM for I was born to die to die again to FLESH that I may live in God’s WILL. I can hold my head high for I have walked in His power, given Him praise as I journeyed through the process, He’s protected my every move and now He’s given me the provision. Now I say “THANK YOU” for making every obstacle and tribulation you threw, set up and planned my stepping stone to fulfilling my purpose in route to destiny.

Walking In Wholeness!!!

God declares that some things will only come through fasting and praying. Yet there are those things that God will give us just because we ask of Him. There are also the things we may ask and he may delay or just say no my child. More importantly there are those times when He just pours out the blessings of Abraham onto us. People so often get lost in the struggle of the storm instead of the lessons in them. I trust God immensely in my life because I know where I'd be without Him. My belief in His power and His ability to do what He desires is no question. With that said God allows, causes and speaks things to be in our lives. When I evaluate where I am it's because of where I was. Knowing that God can heal is one thing, but can you continue to serve Him if He chooses not to stop or clear the storm. I recognize that God is hearing my prayers because of my love for Him and His love for me.  However that doesn't change His plan or purpose. I'm confident through the peace and comfort God gives me to walk this thing out. After questioning the storms in my life. l asked Him why I've endured great sorrows and challenges in my life. It wasn't until He said because He new I could truly walk through it with strength and integrity, but also because it was His purpose and intentional plan for my life.  Can you continue to whether the storm knowing that it may cease and the result remain the same. Understand that even though He can heal all things, it may be your life's purpose to walk out not being healed in an area, but still walk in wholeness.

Be Better, not bitter!!!

It's been said and proven that what goes around comes around. Let that in which you sow be a true representation of who you are because you will see it again. I just love me some Jehovah God. Ultimately becsuse He loves me the best. When you stand faithfully on God's Word He will allow you front row seat. Not just in time of adversity, but acceleration as He makes your enemies, frienemies and the fooled your footstool. Why, because you chose to be better in the battle they sought to destroy you in and not bitter. 

Real Worship!!

Something about spending time at home in my own intimate place of worship. Noone can love you, comfort you and strengthen with peace like God can. Know that even when folks walk away from you that you still have value and are worth the best God has for you!

New Determination!

You are Anointed: Declare that the power of God Almighty rests up you even in this season to spread the good news that others may be saved, delivered and healed. Isaiah 61:1

Embracing the new year!

No matter what you do some people will never be satisfied, others will always be judgmental and some will always criticize. Yet they will never step up to offer assistance, help to come up with a better solution or put their hands, time or abilities to use. Regardless to the positive impact enough is never enough. Go into the new year ready to embrace new endeavors for the kingdom.

Out of Order!

One thing that I've come to realize is that church folk are the most out of order folk. Not because they do not know proper etiquette and order. The fact is that they know it, but they often choose to operate in their own order. So often want everyone else to follow protocol as they break and manipulate it. Learn to give others the same respect you want to receive and not come across as a spiritual bully to others. Titles and positions doesn't get you the right to disrespect others because you think that you grown. Grown comes with age, but maturity comes with wisdom. People wonder why some won't come to the house of worship. It's because they run into folks like this that believe they speak for all as you convient forget the things you say to others in private. Believing that everything that you do is correct when it's not. Time is winding down so get a clue.

R.E.S.P.E.C.T

People so often want to believe that because youre grown that they have the right to do as they please. So they walk around with bad dispositions, bad habits wanting good rewards. Coming to the conclusion that others owe you something.Life is about reciprocation, what you wish to receive is what you should be giving. Many people are being ran away from church by those that are suppose to be mature and wise in the Word. Instead of trying to check someone, let's take a look in the mirror.

Glory After This!

With pain comes suffering, but through suffering comes restoration, support, strength and a strong foundation.
~There will be glory after this!

Season Greetings!

This time of year most people are so consumed by spending money they don't have to impress people that really don't care for them the same. While others are over zealous about giving gifts and spending time with loved ones near and far. Yet those that don't have family, have suffered a lost or experienced a great tragedy are left to reminisce over those same memories. Can you beyond the smiles and laughter to recognize them. Lord today I send a special prayer for those that need your comfort, peace and love just to make it through this season. Don't allow them to be so consumed by pain and heartache because of loneliness in JESUS name AMEN!

Start Now!

Don't wait for the new year to arrive. Start declaring better right now. The only way to move into the next season of your life is to cut off those dead relationships, friendships and kinships that you keep allowing to move you away from God. Some of your are faking like Christians, but you keep asking God why you. He keeps trying to tell you living for me is not like putting on your clothing. Discipleship is a lifestyle not an outfit. Many of you put more into how well you dress like a saint than really being one. That's why your family, friends and co workers are so confused. One minute you shouting praises to God then the next you walking around cussing folk out and not speaking. The same hole you're trying to throw someone else in. It's really the same one you're digging for yourself. Try being the real you for once. Go into the new year seeking God and not trying to please people. Let the life you're living truly speak for who you really are.

Looking Ahead!

Story tells of a woman married for 20 years who now is beginning anew as a single woman. Facing the Life altering choice to start over. Deceive by a man that vowed to love her til death they do depart. Called by God to spread the good news yet living the opposite just as he chooses. Thinking that his hidden lufe was not seen even in God's blindspot. Instead a web of lies and deception over the course of a few years that involve betrayal from family that helped him continue this fausade to maintain multiple relationships with other women. Now your choices have sprung seeds that now must be accounted for. Yet  because she loves him and God she continue to forgive him. People always want to say what they would do, but until your steps walk in those same shoes you don't know. One thing that was so profound is how God allowed her to forgive and walk as an example of Proverbs 31 Woman. That's the difference between little girls and a grown woman. When a person chooses to continue to live in ungodly behaviors and habits with no remorse of how their actions affect others they do so willingly. Its easy to parade around the country and city side trying to impress a side chick because they dont require much. Yet a real man will live for God with integrity at all times and know he has to depend on God with every temptation. Men that operate outside of God in these type relationships need to understand they're not hurting their spouse as much as they are hurting themselves. God will strengthen you to endure the very things that you think you cant, give you peace as you go through it and help you to live out your God given purpose as you give him glory. When He is ready he will move you from that situatiin, but how you handle it until he does is our responsibility. People may never understand how and why you do what you do or endured what you did. Nor do they even care becauuse some are just nosey and want something to talk about. Let me just clear it up for you because contrary to what they may say have happened she loved him and she loves God. So just because he did her wrong it doesnt remove her love for him. Yet its sad how family members will help there own mistreat, lie and deceive their spouse/mate, but if the tables were turned it would be different.  Generational curses like infideluty can be broken, but only when thru acknowledgment, prayer and calling it what it is. God doesnt want anyone to live lesser than they should. One thing about someone who is an habitual adulteror that is an issue with them, not their spouse that they must work on.  No amount of love can change a persons bad behaviors and habits. Forgiveness has allowed her to trust to do her part to mend their relationship, but it takes two. When that trust is repeatedly broken you have to love yourself more and love them from a distance.  God created her as a helpmeet and not a doormat to watch her husband continue walking through the same revolving door. As she closes out this year and look to the future she does so the same way she entered this storm as she makes her exit with her trust in God and her hand in God's hand.
#ArealProverbs31Woman!  

Energy

If they're not adding positive energy to your life then it is time to remove them from your life. Time to disguard the trifling and make room for those destined to travel with you.

#garbageout!

#moreblessingsin!

God is with us!

In the midst of storms, through times of battle and over every obstacle. When family is not there for you, when love ones walk away, with fake friends all around and even your church family are not there to pray for you. GOD has been with us every second, thru every minute, of every hour in each and every day. We walk boldly with our head held high because He allowed that which sought to destroy us not to defile us. 
#Walkingnvictory!
#Alivingtestimony!

Your Season!!

Time has past so quickly and it seems that much hasn't changed from the beginning of the year. Focus not on where you were, but where you are now. It's not the things haven't changed. But that your focus hasnt. This is your season for chsnge, deliverance and breakthru. Don't start the new the same way. Look to do things anew because God m asked all things new.

True Diamond!

The best way to show your disinterest is to delete or keep scrolling. Don't be phased or provoked by every post, poster or picture. One thing about a diamond is that it stands out all on its own. It doesn't need to be stroked or extra thrills to draw attention to itself. The more they point to talk about they give it attention.

The Storm!

Sometimes the storms in your life come to strengthen your spirit and will to pursue purpose. Things may not always come easy, but they are doable. Continue to trust the Lord and follow His leading. This too shall pass as He works out all things for His glory.

The Foundation!

One who builds their house on a foundation of deceit and folly will not finds security. Yet one who fears the Lord will find solace, refuge and abundance through wisdom and knowledge.

Storyline

There are those that have been sitting along the sidelines cheering at your downfall, laughing and whispering at your tears, those that thought they had a hand in your storyline and those there standing right next to you hoping that you wouldn't get up again. They think that they have predicted your demise, finish or ending, but they're about to see that God has rewritten your story. Don't be upset that their plotting because God wants them to be focus on His ending of the story.

A better you!

Choosing to change doesn't mean that you are giving up who you are. It simply means that because you love who you are, you recognize that you could become a better you.

Is enough ever enough!

The anxiety of young people to fit in to their surroundings and the people in them has alwys been an age old story. Do they like me? What do they think of me? Will I fit in? You can really just go on and on with so many more questions that race through the minds of so me of us coming up. It really isn't until you get some age and a little wisdom under your belt that you truly come to understand that those things have no barring on who we are as individuals or the mark that we will make on ths world that we live in. Self Worth and Awareness is personal, no one can define it for you , nor can anyone put boundaries around you as to what you can accomplish. How you feel about yourself is the model that others should see to follow. If you don't like or appreciate YOU, then neither will anyone else. KNOW YOUR VALUE!

Time to unload!

Trust God to help you release the baggage of your past so that you can enjoy the blessings of not just your future, but those of today. Another new day is a great start to enjoying better days. Begin to give all of your cares and burdens to The Lord and leave them there. Trust him to take care of you because God will take care of you. ~Be Blessed